Boundary Phrase: I’m Not the Right Person to Share That
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Boundary Phrase: I’m Not the Right Person to Share That
2M viewsOct 21, 2022
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3rd of my top 40 favorite #boundary phrases as an #actuallyautistic #boundarycoach! Get the printable flash cards for $10 and check out my Boundary Phrase playlist for more!
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3rd of my top 40 favorite #boundary phrases as an #actuallyautistic #boundarycoach! Get the printable flash cards for $10 and check out my Boundary Phrase playlist for more!
1.8M viewsOct 10, 2022
TikTokkami_orange
It’s an intentional non sequitur. This is for people looking for the step beyond silence but saying, “MIL, that’s really rude. Don’t comment on my weight.” isn’t an option yet. #boundarycoach
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It’s an intentional non sequitur. This is for people looking for the step beyond silence but saying, “MIL, that’s really rude. Don’t comment on my weight.” isn’t an option yet. #boundarycoach
755.8K viewsOct 27, 2022
TikTokkami_orange
Four boundary phrases I use at the doctor’s office as a fat person. I don’t want to be weighed today. I’m not here to talk about my weight. I’m here to talk about fill in the blank. I would like it noted in my chart that you are refusing to test me for fill in the blank. If this was a visit with an anesthesiologist or you were prescribing me medications that are dosed by weight, then I would. But otherwise it’s not relevant to what we’re here to discuss so I’m not going to do that today. For mor
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Four boundary phrases I use at the doctor’s office as a fat person. I don’t want to be weighed today. I’m not here to talk about my weight. I’m here to talk about fill in the blank. I would like it noted in my chart that you are refusing to test me for fill in the blank. If this was a visit with an anesthesiologist or you were prescribing me medications that are dosed by weight, then I would. But otherwise it’s not relevant to what we’re here to discuss so I’m not going to do that today. For mor
522.2K views5 months ago
TikTokkami_orange
Setting Boundaries: Phrases for Direct Communication
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Setting Boundaries: Phrases for Direct Communication
66.9K views6 months ago
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Confusion Over Potato Storage: A Humorous Take
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Confusion Over Potato Storage: A Humorous Take
51K views7 months ago
TikTokkami_orange
If they don’t care when I’m uncomfortable, that’s good information to know. With that information I can make different decisions about how often and in what ways I’m willing to be around them. I prioritize my relationships with people who care if I’m comfortable or uncomfortable and vice versa. This is a repost from October 2022. I’m packing my house to move so instead of filming new videos, I’m resharing from the Kami Orange Archives! I’m a boundary coach and if you like this type of content, y
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If they don’t care when I’m uncomfortable, that’s good information to know. With that information I can make different decisions about how often and in what ways I’m willing to be around them. I prioritize my relationships with people who care if I’m comfortable or uncomfortable and vice versa. This is a repost from October 2022. I’m packing my house to move so instead of filming new videos, I’m resharing from the Kami Orange Archives! I’m a boundary coach and if you like this type of content, y
26.3K views4 months ago
TikTokkami_orange
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Let's help this person out! What #boundaryphrase would you use? #boundarycoach #boundaries #stitchthis
102.3K viewsDec 16, 2022
TikTokkami_orange
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Five responses to overly personal questions. I’m responding to a comment that says: “I really hope you do one for fertility. I keep getting asked about when I will have another baby but I might not be able to have one.” This is a repost from October 2022. I’m packing my house to move so instead of filming new videos, I’m resharing from the Kami Orange Archives! I’m a boundary coach and if you like this type of content, you will probably also enjoy my boundary phrase book SAY THE THING. Published
8.5K views4 months ago
TikTokkami_orange
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Effective Boundary Phrases for Trans Individuals at Work
91.4K viewsOct 26, 2022
TikTokkami_orange
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That hasn’t been my experience. Number 7 of my Top 10 Favorite Boundary Phrases. When you give a chill response of, “That hasn’t been my experience” it means you disagree with what they said based on your personal life references. It only works about 60% of the time to end the conversation or change their mind but I think that’s high enough to keep saying it. The 40% of the time it doesn’t work, I’m okay with letting them know I disagree. [Video Description] Kami is a white woman with short hair
17.9K views10 months ago
TikTokkami_orange
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We have to go twice as far
480 views1 week ago
YouTubeKami Orange
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#answer to @Lee Don’t say “it’s ok” when it’s not ok! #boundarycoach #boundaries
64.8K viewsNov 30, 2022
TikTokkami_orange
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I guess it’s okay that I kept my last name? #boundaries
1.1K views3 weeks ago
YouTubeKami Orange
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Replying to @saintsnacky If your new #boundaries are really different from what you were doing before, the renegotiations of all your relationships will be more intense. You’re in the hardest part. I PROMISE IT GETS BETTER. It’s worth the discomfort to create a life with healthy boundaries. You can do it! Keep going! #boundarycoach
53.6K viewsOct 22, 2022
TikTokkami_orange
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#duet with drkimberlydouglass [Captions on original video.] I have been told this on my videos about
285 views1 week ago
YouTubeKami Orange
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Boundary Phrase: I am not upset at YOU but I am upset at this situation.#boundarycoach #saythething #boundarysetting #kamiorange
29.9K viewsFeb 29, 2024
TikTokkami_orange
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Intellectually I understand but emotionally I don’t
336 views2 weeks ago
YouTubeKami Orange
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I feel so fancy having a @BuzzFeed article about me that I’m imagining getting recognized in public! 😂😂 #boundarycoach #boundaryphrases
41.6K viewsNov 12, 2022
TikTokkami_orange
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Exploring Boundaries: Direct vs. Indirect Communication
38.5K viewsNov 30, 2022
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