repost Chris Williamson: Alison Armstrong breaks down a truth a lot of men never hear. If you make a woman your entire purpose, you lose yourself, and the relationship loses its spark. Your energy, your drive, your creativity, your ambition… all of that is meant to be spread across a life you’re building, not placed entirely on one person. A woman doesn’t want to be your whole world. She wants a man with a mission. A man with direction. A man who brings purpose into the relationship, not one who