Have you ever found yourself standing at the edge of someone else’s emotional cliff, ready to leap in and save them from the fall? It’s instinctive, isn’t it? You see someone struggling—whether it's a ...

This story first appeared in SELF. There’s one line in Grey’s Anatomy that’s always stuck with me: “I’m a fixer. I fix things.” It pretty much sums up why I’ve stayed in toxic relationships longer ...